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			by Celia Fenn 
			
			from
			
			StarChild Website 
			
			  
			
			"Indigo Children" is the name given to a 
			very special group of beings who have chosen to incarnate on our 
			planet with a specific mission and purpose. 
			 
			The name "indigo Child" refers to the soul color of Indigo, which 
			indicates a Master Soul who serves as a teacher or healer. Every 
			Indigo Child will undertake this mission of teaching or healing in 
			some way, often merely by being who he or she is. 
			 
			Indigos have been coming to our planet for a long time. Some argue 
			that Jesus and Buddha were Indigos, since their 
			mission, on a global scale, was to teach and heal, and to shift the 
			consciousness of humanity. 
			 
			In the recent past, Indigos began to incarnate on the planet in 
			increasing numbers after World War II, in preparation for the global 
			shift that we are now experiencing. They incarnated among the "baby 
			boom" generation of the fifties and were born to the "flower 
			children" of the sixties. However, at this stage there was not a 
			sufficient number of them on the planet to create significant 
			changes. 
			 
			Then, in the 1970s, the first generational "wave" of Indigo Children 
			arrived. These beings are now in their late twenties and early 
			thirties, and are the real "warrior" generation who have begun the 
			process of challenging and shifting old systems. 
			 
			They were followed in the eighties and nineties by Indigos of 
			increasing sensitivity and refinement, until the late 1990s and 
			early 2000s when they were joined by the Crystal Children, a 
			different kind of spiritual warrior. 
			 
			 
			 
			How to 
			Recognize an Indigo 
			 
			I am often asked in the course of my work how to recognize an 
			Indigo.  
			
			  
			
			The obvious answer would be to check the aura color. But no, 
			not all Indigos have dark blue auras all the time. The term "Indigo" 
			refers to a soul state and not to an aura color, which in the 
			average human changes from day to day depending on mood and 
			interest. Clairvoyants who read soul states may be able to identify 
			Indigos. 
			 
			However, it is easy to identify an Indigo by their sensitivity, 
			creativity, spirituality and general behavioral patterns. 
			 
			As children, they look much like other children, although they are 
			often physically beautiful with penetrating eyes. They are always 
			highly intelligent and full of questions and demands. They are 
			energetic and active and have strong wills and a strong sense of 
			their own value and importance. They know that they are special and 
			that they are here to do something significant. 
			 
			They are right-brain oriented, and are generally attracted to 
			right-brain pursuits such as music, art, writing and spirituality. 
			They love crystals and reiki and meditation and yoga. 
			 
			They are very passionate and intensely loyal to their friends, of 
			whom they often have many. They believe in honesty and communication 
			in relationships. They are often baffled by dishonesty and 
			manipulation and other forms of selfish behavior deemed normal by 
			their elders. 
			 
			Their attitude towards money is either to reject it as unnecessary 
			or to be very aware of its power and to seek, often successfully, to 
			create affluence for themselves. 
			 
			A key feature of Indigos is often anger. They will not be ordered 
			around by so-called "authority figures". On a deep level, 
			Indigos do 
			not recognize "authority". They know we are all equal, and so they 
			are enraged by those who assume authority and behave dictatorially, 
			whether they are parents, teachers or bosses. 
			 
			This is where they are important as teachers - they are teaching us 
			to own our own power and to respect ourselves, by not giving away 
			our power to those who demand it.  
			
			  
			
			They are teaching us further to value 
			our creative and spiritual selves and not to place so much value on 
			material success. 
			 
			 
			 
			The Indigo 
			Child 
			 
			The Indigo as child is active, energetic and imaginative. They can 
			entertain themselves and play in their own worlds for hours. They 
			often have imaginary friends, and they love fairies and dolphins. 
			 
			The boys often have more of a tendency towards hyperactive and 
			disruptive behavior. This is probably culturally determined by our 
			society's need to express male dominance, which is picked up by them 
			at an early stage. 
			 
			The exceptional intelligence of Indigos can be exasperating to 
			adults. They will not be "told what to do", but will want to debate 
			and negotiate every instruction. Until the parent learns that they 
			are being taught to respect the child's right to choice, and honor 
			that choice, they will continue to be confronted at every turn with 
			power struggles and battles of will. 
			 
			The correct way to handle an Indigo is to be willing to, 
			
				
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					negotiate  
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					explain  
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					offer choices  
				 
			 
			
			Bald instructions to "do as you are 
			told" will only produce hostility or indifference. 
			 
			Indigos often dislike school intensely. They are bored by the (to 
			them) slow pace and repetitive tasks deemed suitable for children by 
			teachers who do not understand their intelligence. 
			 
			They battle with authority and peer pressure, which can be quite 
			overwhelming to a young Indigo soul with little real understanding 
			of the "power over others", dominance and submission states common 
			to Earth society. 
			 
			Problems experienced at school include ADD and ADHT, a result of 
			boredom and irritation. Learning disabilities such as dyslexia often 
			also reflect alternative ways of being and thinking used by Indigos. 
			 
			 
			 
			The Indigo 
			Adolescent 
			 
			Like most adolescents, the Indigo will reach the state of puberty 
			transition and become moody and inward as the body changes. However, 
			at this stage, young Indigos often begin to see through the intense 
			materialism and the victim dramas that form the basis of most adults 
			lives in the modern world. 
			 
			At this point they often "disconnect" from these lifestyles and opt 
			for "alternatives" which they deem more meaningful or more fun or 
			just plain challenging to adults. 
			 
			Unfortunately, many of these include the drug culture and various 
			trance parties that include chemically induced states of bliss that 
			are short-lived and addictive. 
			 
			At this point, the adolescent is expressing his or her anger and 
			rejection of a system that offers nothing of value to the Indigo 
			soul. Parents can take their children to Rehabilitation programs, 
			but they really need to question why such intelligent and creative 
			beings often seem to want to self-destruct. 
			 
			Another form of self-destructive adolescent behavior occurs when the 
			child takes on the values of the parents and seeks to overachieve. 
			This can be frightening, as Indigos are by nature exceptionally 
			gifted and talented.  
			
			  
			
			These Indigos often develop phenomenal 
			academic and technical abilities to gain recognition and success, 
			but sacrifice emotional development which can be hugely damaging in 
			later life when they seek to create meaningful partnerships. 
			 
			 
			 
			The Young 
			Indigo Adult 
			 
			In their twenties and early thirties, Indigos usually fall into one 
			of two groups. 
			 
			The first group follows a "yuppie" path and creates affluence, 
			usually through a career in IT or the Arts. They seek stable 
			relationships and to have children and create families. But they 
			battle with the demands and norms of the systems of marriage, family 
			and employment. Their Indigo souls strive to express their essence 
			and remain true to who they are while still achieving "success" as 
			dictated by our culture. 
			 
			The second group opts to "drop out", and often the individuals 
			travel extensively, becoming a "global citizen" and battling to 
			settle in any one place. These people often have no fixed career or 
			work, and live an alternative lifestyle that includes drugs. While 
			they often claim to be happy, they are also frustrated by their 
			inability to be able economically to pursue the "normal" activities 
			of creating a family and contributing to a community. 
			 
			Both groups are attempting to redefine what it means to be an adult 
			in the contemporary world, and to find ways of living their truth 
			while still finding happiness and stability as adults.  
			
			  
			
			They are the generation that is defining 
			new choices and new options for adult life on the New Earth. 
			 
			 
			 
			Systems 
			Busting - Indigos and the Education System 
			 
			The area of community life where Indigos have had the most effect is 
			the education system. As mentioned earlier, Indigos are mostly 
			right-brainers who are energetic and active. They dislike sitting 
			still for long periods, being told what to do and being bored by 
			repetitive tasks that fail to challenge them. Since this generally 
			defines the school experience, it is obvious that Indigos will have 
			problems and will cause problems. 
			 
			The right-brain orientation means many indigos struggle to maintain 
			interest and focus in a school curriculum designed for left-brain 
			activity. Their need to express their energy in movement and to 
			relieve their boredom means they are restless and can be disruptive. 
			When they begin to fall behind their peers, they can become stressed 
			and anxious. 
			 
			The usual diagnoses given to Indigos are ADD (Attention 
			Deficit Disorder) and ADHT (Attention Deficit 
			Hyperactivity Disorder), which are regarded as "minimal brain 
			dysfunction" disorders by medicine. The parent needs to choose 
			between defining their child with a pathological label, or accepting 
			that the child represents the next step in human evolution, and 
			neither needs nor wants to spend 6 or 7 hours a day sitting behind a 
			desk being told what to think. 
			 
			Lets face it - the school system is dated and dysfunctional. 
			Schools were originally designed to educate the children of the 
			upper classes, who had the wealth and time to devote to mental 
			pursuits as a sign of their superiority. Gradually, in the 19th and 
			early 20th century, education became universal. 
			 
			But what does the school system really do? Most Indigos agree that 
			what is taught in school is rarely relevant to real life. It 
			confines them to mental or "head" experience, and most Indigos want 
			real life experience to be their teacher. 
			 
			In addition, sitting behind a school desk for 6 hours a day is seen 
			as no more than training to sit behind and office desk for 8 hours a 
			day or more, and most Indigos have no interest in that life path. 
			 
			Modern school classes in South Africa usually consist of 30 or so 
			children and one teacher. The system functions because the children 
			agree to be controlled by the teacher. However, as more and more 
			Indigos say no, the system begins to falter. 
			 
			Perhaps indigos are teaching us that there are better ways to learn. 
			Perhaps, beyond a few hours a day of basic literacy and numeracy, 
			the child of the future will choose projects to be pursued in the 
			community under supervision of parents or teachers. These could be 
			"real life" oriented, and be of benefit to both the learner and the 
			community. 
			 
			Meanwhile, more and more Indigos are saying no to formal school 
			education. 
			 
			 
			 
			Indigo Stories 
			 
			These are real life experiences drawn from my work with Indigos. 
			 
			I met Alison when she was 15 and had just dropped out of school. She 
			was attractive, intelligent and sensitive. She came from an affluent 
			family, her father being a respected medical practitioner. 
			 
			Alison absolutely refused to go to school, and had become involved 
			with drugs. Her parents, not knowing how to cope, were forced to 
			allow her to leave school and to deal with her drug problem and her 
			rebellion. She was placed in a drug rehab program. 
			 
			She wanted to study Reiki and Healing with crystals, but was really 
			too immature to be a healer. 
			 
			Eventually she became a model, and was able to get work in London 
			and Tokyo. She earned large sums of money and was able to travel the 
			world. Being attractive, she had no shortage of male companions in 
			her life. 
			 
			How does one tell an Indigo like Alison that she needed to go the 
			school? She plainly did not. She was able to live a life beyond what 
			most people aspire to without spending years at school and 
			university.  
			
			  
			
			This is typical of Indigos: they work out the system and 
			then use it to their advantage rather than being controlled by it. 
			 
			Peter, on the other hand, went into a deep depression in his final 
			year of school. He dropped out, not because of work pressure, but 
			because he was able to see the futility and the illusion of the 
			school system. His father was opposed, but his mother with whom he 
			lived, was willing to allow his journey. 
			 
			After several months of dealing with his depression, Peter decided 
			not to return to school, but to pursue a technical diploma for which 
			he did not need a school certificate. 
			 
			This option gave him the time to research his other interests in 
			life, alternative healing and healthier lifestyles. 
			 
			A more tragic story is that of Jamila, a young Asian South African 
			girl who also dropped out in her final year of school. In Jamila's 
			case, her parents were academic high achievers, and Jamila in fact 
			did buckle under the pressure to perform as well as the suppressed 
			anger at her parents "absence" from her life while pursuing their 
			careers. 
			 
			She is immensely gifted, sensitive, and loving, as well as 
			beautiful. But she developed an eating disorder as a signal that all 
			was not right in her world. 
			 
			Unfortunately, her parents adopted the "child as problem" approach, 
			and sought to find someone to "cure" her. They were unable to 
			understand that their own behavior and the system in which they 
			thrived was inimical to their Indigo daughter and her gentle and 
			sensitive approach to life 
			 
			Then, on the lighter side, is the story of 4 year old Kim, who 
			informed her mother that she was not going to go to school. She 
			intended to be a mother when she grew up, and for that, she told 
			Mom, she didn't need to go to school. Mother tended not to agree, 
			and Kim was enrolled at the local Waldorf School.  
			
			  
			
			The Waldorf and Montessori systems of 
			education see to be the best available to Indigos at the moment.
			 
			
			  
			
			Many Indigo parents are also going for 
			the home schooling option, which allows for more flexibility of 
			approach while still ensuring that the child gets the necessary 
			education. 
			 
			 
			 
			Systems 
			Busting - Indigos and the Medical System 
			 
			Another area where Indigos are making their presence felt is with 
			the medical system. This is as a result of the medical diagnoses of 
			ADD and Hyperactivity, or "minimal brain dysfunction". Medical 
			science's answer is a drug - usually 
			
			Ritalin, sometimes 
			
			Prozac. 
			 
			I have seen a child as young as seven on a medically prescribed 
			anti-depressant. I have heard a respected pediatrician recommend 
			that children as young as three be put on Ritalin. 
			 
			There is much debate about the pros and cons of Ritalin, and I am 
			not going to go into that here. Suffice to say that Ritalin is a 
			drug of the amphetamine stimulant class. It has side effects and 
			withdrawal symptoms, and is also addictive if misused. 
			 
			The significance of this debate in terms of Indigos, is that many 
			people are now questioning a medical system that drugs small 
			children with stimulant drugs that alter brain chemistry as a way of 
			coping with behavior that doesn't conform to the "norm" of the 
			"average child". 
			 
			In my work with children I have encountered children that range from 
			gifted and "brilliant" to those who are autistic and learning 
			disabled. In this journey, I have come to believe that there is no 
			such thing as the "average child". Each child is like a snowflake - 
			unique and individual, with its own needs and desires. 
			 
			Yet the education system is geared to the "average child", and if a 
			child does not conform to this model they are drugged into 
			conformity.  
			
			  
			
			Dr Peter Breggin, an American psychiatrist who is 
			anti the use of Ritalin, points out that what is defined as ADD or 
			ADHD is just the manifestation of a child that functions at "one end 
			of the energy spectrum" - the high end! 
			 
			People who work with Indigos prefer to call these children 
			"kinesthetic learners", and to suggest that they need modes of 
			learning suited to their energy levels, rather than Ritalin. 
			 
			Diet has also been shown to have a major effect on children. The 
			stimulants in caffeine, refined sugars and food additives, all have 
			a negative effect on children who are already high in energy. 
			Eliminating these foods and concentrating on fresh and organic foods 
			has been known to help to balance over-stimulated Indigos. Many 
			Indigos, in fact, prefer this kind of diet if they are allowed 
			access to it. But, busy parents often aggravate the problems by 
			feeding their children processed and convenience foods which upset 
			their sensitive systems. 
			 
			Indigos are teaching us once again of the importance of holistic 
			living, natural therapies and healing, and natural, unprocessed 
			food.  
			
			  
			
			They are also challenging a medical 
			system that sees pharmaceutical drugs as "magic bullets", regardless 
			of the consequences and side-effects. 
			 
			 
			 
			The Unhappy 
			Indigo 
			 
			If Indigos are given the opportunity to express who they are, if 
			they are honored and respected, they can become highly sensitive, 
			loving and gifted people. If not, they tend to become 
			self-destructive and dysfunctional. 
			 
			The high incidence of drug abuse, eating disorders and dysfunctional 
			behavior among Indigos is an indicator that the way we live is 
			dysfunctional. 
			 
			Please, Never Tell them they're Not Good Enough..... 
			 
			Indigos are born with a strong sense of "mission". They are
			the 
			spiritual warriors of the Indigo Ray. They know they have something 
			really special to do on this planet. 
			 
			Yet, from the moment they arrive, they are bombarded with negative 
			messages that affect their self-worth. From the time they begin to 
			walk, there is a constant "don't do this/don't do that", to messages 
			that say "you are stupid". I have seen a four year old who informed 
			me that she was, unfortunately, stupid. How damaging this is, 
			especially to an Indigo. 
			 
			If an Indigo is made to feel worthless and not good enough, they 
			tend to feel that they are failures. They have failed at their 
			mission, and this makes them depressed, angry, neurotic and self 
			destructive. 
			 
			So please, if you parent or care for an Indigo, make sure you are 
			affirming of their value and worth. Respect them for who they are, 
			no matter how different they are to you. Children are not meant to 
			be clones of their parents, or to carry the aspirations of the 
			parent.  
			
			  
			
			Allow them to be who they are, and they 
			will flourish and thrive. 
			 
			 
			 
			More Indigo 
			Stories 
			 
			I have worked with many Indigos, to help them to balance their lives 
			and be successful. 
			 
			Nine year old Sonya came to me with intense eczema all over her 
			body. She was sleeping badly and was anxious and depressed. I 
			referred her to a homeopath for treatment for the eczema. The 
			homeopath used homeopathic and naturopathic treatments together with 
			diet.  
			
			  
			
			When I worked with Sonya I used Energy Balancing, 
			crystals and 
			visualization techniques to help her. After several months, her 
			mother reported that the eczema was nearly completely cleared, and 
			that she was happy and enjoying her life. 
			 
			Twenty-four year old Lara came to me in a deeply depressed state. 
			She was unemployed, despite being a qualified artist. She wept her 
			way through our initial sessions. I worked with her intensively over 
			a period of a bout 18 months, seeing her once a month. We used 
			Emotional Clearing and Regression techniques, together with 
			Energy Balancing and Crystal therapy. 
			 
			Lara found a job that suited her talents, and eventually moved on to 
			one that included traveling.  
			
			  
			
			She was thrilled at the shifts and 
			changes in her life as a result of the spiritual work. In addition, 
			her social life improved and she left her mother's home and began 
			sharing a house with a friend. 
  
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