CONTENTS
BASIC IDEA
ALONE OR LONELY
SHELLS / CHARACTERS VALUING
SHELLS BORROWING AND ITS IMPLICATIONS
SHELLS BORROWING AND PREGNANCY
THE APPROACH MOMENT

YOUR BELOVED WIFE (HUSBAND) IS NOT YOUR MOTHER (FATHER)

BASIC IDEA
The title of this page may sound obvious to you, but certainly not for THEM.

The basic SICKLY AND DISTORTED idea embedded in THEIR speculation is convincing your brain that your wife (if you are a male survivor) or your husband (if you are a female survivor) is just creating you like a child, is just making you grow up, and then, when you become a grown man (woman), she (he) would liberate you to the other women (men), whom you should date and even marry in the STAGE WORLD.

Ask yourself : are YOU a character ? Do you have your crystal activated ? Do you receive (like THEM) on-line and permanent instructions from a director ? Do THEY recognize you as being a character ? Do THEIR female (male) characters recognize you as being a character ?

Ask yourself : do you put your beloved one in a pedestal ? Ain't you feel she (he) is in love with you, too ?

Your only mother (father) is that who genetically gave life to you, and nobody else (or who physically adopted you in the STAGE WORLD, if you were adopted).

Do you have a genetic link to your beloved one ? No, you don't. You have a genetic link to your physical and only mother and to your real father.

Did your beloved one adopt you as a child ? No, she (he) didn't. Where are the papers ? Which name do you read in your birth certificate as being your mother's name ?

Ain't you love her (him) ? Don't you want her (him) for the rest of your life ? Doesn't she (he) love you, too ? Doesn't she (he) want you too, to share a lifetime with her (him) ?

So that's it, as simple as that. That's up to you and her (him), and nobody else, either in the STAGE WORLD or in the BACKSTAGE.

The BACKSTAGE has no rules concerning your marriage with her (him). THEY have no BACKSTAGE Constitution prohibiting your marriage with her (him). The BACKSTAGE is governed by LOVE. Don't you love each other ?

Just put an end to THEIR speculation. Don't let anybody decide what you two must do, your marriage belongs to you and her (him), and to nobody else.

YOU AND HER (HIM) ARE THE ONLY OWNERS OF YOUR VERY DESTINIES, THE ONLY ONES IN POSITION OF DECIDING WHAT TO DO.

YOUR BELOVED ONE ALSO 'DESERVES' TO BE WITH YOU. SHE (HE) ALSO NEEDS YOU. YOU ARE ALSO A 'PRIZE' FOR HER (HIM). SHE (HE) ALSO ADORES YOU. SHE (HE) HAS ALSO FALLEN FOR YOU. SHE (HE) IS ALSO IN LOVE WITH YOU. NEVER DOUBT THIS FACT.

BELIEVE IN HER (HIS) VOICE WITHIN YOUR HEART. BELIEVE IN THIS VOICE, BECAUSE IT IS TELLING YOU THE TRUTH. THEY ARE NOT.

SHE (HE) IS NOT SUPERIOR LIKE A DIVINE ENTITY, SHE (HE) IS NOT A GODDESS (GOD) IN A PEDESTAL, SHE (HE) IS NOT A PRIZE OR A TROPHY TO BE CONQUERED IN A CHAMPIONSHIP, SHE (HE) IS NOT JUDGING YOU.

AND IF YOU'RE A PAN, WOULDN'T YOU BE 'DIVINE' TOO ? DO YOU HAVE IDEA OF WHAT IS YOUR POTENTIAL ? THINK ABOUT IT.

ALONE OR LONELY ?
Let's say that at the present moment you're physically alone, i.e., your beloved one is present only through her (his) voice inside your heart, and that this situation lasts for a certain time now.

But YOU KNOW that she (he) will some day return to your routine, you can FEEL it. And YOU KNOW you have NOT to pass through any "auric death" or "auric sacrifice" to be with her (him). You know there is absolutely no "payment" to be done, no "ticket" to be bought, and no "toll" to be paid whatsoever. (see section "THERE IS NO PAYMENT", Examples #1 - The Angel Approach, and #2 - The Lose-to-Value Approach).

So what do you do ?

While you're waiting for her (him) to come, are you gonna have sex with the characters of other women (men), just like Truman Burbank in the movie "The Truman Show" ?

Or are you gonna wait with joy in your heart because you know that she (he) is "here inside your heart" always talking to you and because you feel and know for sure that some day she (he) will return to your STAGE WORLD routine ?

And if you do this or that, are you doing it because you really want, or because THEY have induced you to ? Ask yourself.

Time is just an illusion. Do you believe in this idea ?

SHELLS / CHARACTERS VALUING
Let's say now that your beloved one appears in your routine, using several shells. To define what kind of relationship you want with her (him), these are some questions you may want to reflect on before THEY induce you to :

Do you value her (his) shells ?

Is it important to you ? Or totally irrelevant ? Ask yourself.

Do you believe there must be an intrinsic relation between the so-called beauty of your present shell and the so-called beauty of her (his) present shells ? Why ? Ask yourself.

What about the characters connected to each shell ? Do you value her (his) characters ? Do you have any preference concerning this or that character that she (he) may use ? Why ? Ask yourself.

Do you believe that there must be a similarity between some characteristics of your present 'life' and some characteristics of a specific character of hers (his) ? Why ? Ask yourself.

Do you believe there are any restrictions for your present shell to have a relationship with any specific shell of hers (his) ? Why ? Ask yourself.

You are NOT a character because you don't have your crystal activated and because THEY don't recognize you as a character. How do you think this fact may influence your relationship with her (him) ? Do you believe you have to behave like a character for her (him) or with her (him) ? Why ? Ask yourself.

SHELLS BORROWING AND ITS IMPLICATIONS
Another important issue is her (his) relationship with her (his) shell.

Do you believe she (he) IS the shell(s) she (he) uses when she (he) is in your presence ? Do you believe she (he) is the character she (he) plays ?

Or do you believe she (he) just borrows the shells she (he) uses for a moment, just to be with you, and that she (he) leaves these shells as soon as she (he) is not anymore in your presence ?

What would you say if your beloved one appeared to you using a shell and a character that has a boyfriend (girlfriend) or perhaps a husband (wife) in the STAGE WORLD ?

Would you be jealous ? Would you be angry ? Why ? Ask yourself.

Or would you have plain understanding and comprehension that everything is just a performance; that that partner she (he) is with is just the partner of that shell, not her (his) partner; and that this shell was already dating/marrying him (her) before your beloved one borrows it temporarily ?

SHELLS BORROWING AND PREGNANCY
If you're a MALE survivor and some day finally make true love (the so-called fusion) with her using a certain shell, and afterwards this shell gets pregnant and she leaves the shell, would you agree with the idea of letting your and your wife's genetic child to that couple (that shell without your wife plus her partner) to create ? (if you do, mentalize "GOOD FATHER FOR OURS KIDS" whenever you see him).

If you're a FEMALE survivor and some day finally make true love (the so-called fusion) with him using a certain shell, and afterwards you get pregnant of him, and he leaves this shell (which has another female partner in the STAGE WORLD), would you agree with the idea of assuming to THEIR characters (e.g. your relatives, friends, classmates, etc.) that your child has unknown origin ? (if you do, mentalize "FALSE UNKNOWN ORIGIN" whenever THEY talk about it).

THE APPROACH MOMENT
Let's assume again she (he) is in your routine, no matter if it is the first time or if she (he) has returned after a certain period of time.

Are you going to take the initiative of approaching her (his) character using the laws of the STAGE WORLD where you live, that is, not mentioning anything about the BACKSTAGE and about the true love that join both of you ?

Or are you going to wait just staring at her (his) face and feeling your immense love for her (him), until she (he) finally takes the initiative of approaching you without being a character, i.e., without using the rules of the STAGE WORLD ?

Ask yourself.

What do you want : to date and have sex with her (his) character in the STAGE WORLD ? To marry her (his) character in the STAGE WORLD ?

Do you believe that having sex with her (his) character will activate your crystal, or do you feel it's just one more delirious crap THEY try to sell you ?

Or, instead of having sex with her (his) character, do you want to make true love - fusion - with her (him) using the same sincerity that you have 'here inside', i.e., without the hypocrisy of the STAGE WORLD ?

Do you wanna marry her (his) original shape in the BACKSTAGE ?

Ask yourself.

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