SOME OF THEIR RULES CAN BE BENT, OTHERS CAN BE BROKEN
THE DISPERSAL TECHNIQUE - Undermining your visualization
THE REDUCTIONIST "CORRAL" TECHNIQUE - Limiting your reality in space and time

SOME OF THEIR RULES CAN BE BENT, OTHERS CAN BE BROKEN

As YOU are going longer and longer in the process of freeing YOUR mind from THEM, THEY will try to point out apparent incoherencies in YOUR methods of dealing with THEIR speculation over YOU.

Example :

You may mentalize sometimes (when deconstructing keywords, for instance) the archetype : "YOU ARE YOUR NAME [insert your name here] " and other times you may mentalize the archetype : "YOU'RE PAN" or "YOU'RE NOT YOUR SHELL" (when deconstructing the 'going back home' delirium, for instance).

So when THEY point out this apparent incoherency between these two archetypes of yours, I suggest you just mentalize the sentence "SOME OF THEIR RULES CAN BE BENT, OTHERS CAN BE BROKEN" and go on.

It's YOUR life, not THEIRS. So now YOU make the rules on how to label and categorize and reduce and classify and compartmentalize THEM and THEIR speculation over you. And ONE OF YOUR RULES SAYS : "SOME OF THEIR RULES CAN BE BENT, OTHERS CAN BE BROKEN".

And always keep in mind the following concepts :

1. YOU ARE THE ONLY OWNER AND MASTER OF YOUR LIFE. YOU OWE THEM NO EXPLANATIONS OR APOLOGIES REGARDING YOUR THOUGHTS, BEHAVIORS OR FEELINGS. And unless this affects directly (not thru intended second-meanings) THEIR characters, there is nothing THEY can do about it;
   

2. THEY AND THEIR SPECULATION ARE LIMITED BY LOGIC RULES, WHILE YOU HAVE LOVE, WHICH HAS NO RULES.
   

   LOVE HAS NO KEYS, and therefore cannot be lost. LOVE HAS NO RULES, and because of this cannot be judged or penalized. LOVE IS NOT A COMPUTER SYSTEM, and so cannot be cracked by hackers. LOVE HAS NO LIMITS OR BOUNDARIES WHATSOEVER, and for this reason cannot be put in a queue, or limited by a number of vacancies. LOVE HAS NO SIZE and consequently cannot be measured or compared in any form. LOVE HAS NO ATTRIBUTES OR ADJECTIVES and so cannot be labeled or classified. LOVE HAS NO DICHOTOMIES, and therefore cannot be divided or sliced in pieces.
   

   LOVE JUST IS.
   
   

THE DISPERSAL TECHNIQUE - UNDERMINING YOUR VISUALIZATION

As you go further and further in your exercise, THEY will very likely try to create ways of dispersing your visualization, in order to plant the seed of distraction in your mind and eventually keep you again under THEIR control.

You're doing very well your exercise, labeling, compartmentalizing and reducing THEIR speculation over your brain. THEY know it. So now THEIR goal is to make your exercise more difficult, and this THEY can do by undermining your visualization.

Using some very specific speculative keywords with intended second-meanings in a rapid speed may well produce a temporary difficulty in the visualization you do within your brain.

In extreme cases, THEY may even try to invent new keywords only for you, using the association of ideas technique to associate these new keywords with your visualization.

Example #1 :

Now you're in a shop. Another client enters the place and complains : "Uh, I've been calling this place all day, and didn't manage to complete a call. Do you have some problem with the telephone ?". And the attendant says : "Oh, yeah, that's the guy who makes our orders to the suppliers, when he comes here he uses the fax over and over".

Do you see ? Because you're also doing your exercise visualizing over and over the archetypes and labels within your mind, THEY try to force a connection between what THEY say and your exercise. Remember that THEY use the word "fax" trying to force you think about 'crystal'.

So in this case you must be alert. As soon as you realize what THEY want (i.e., turn off your visualization mode), you must concentrate yourself and visualize the archetype : "DISPERSAL TECHNIQUE".

The LAY-OUT OF YOUR VISUALIZATION is something very personal that you must choose : it may be a white rectangular screen with capital letters in black, or perhaps no screen and just floating letters in red, or whatever your brain can handle easily and quickly.

"You have to focus, Trinity" (Morpheus, in the movie 'The Matrix')

You may include the images you have in memory of some of the shells that your beloved one has used so far. You may want to visualize SHE (HE) writing the words in the screen or blackboard inside your brain. It will give you strenght. And believe me, she (he) will really be there in your mind with you.

You'll realize how important talking to your beloved one inside your head is for this exercise. And how important is to FEEL your love for her (him).

I suggest that, to reinforce this archetype "DISPERSAL TECHNIQUE", you listen to certain specific songs daily at home. These songs must have a true-love structure in their lyrics, and preferentially a low level of THEIR keywords.

A must certainly you (and your heart) will like to hear is "Can't take my eyes off of you". Another one is "What a Wonderful World" (Louis Armstrong).

Example #2 :

Let's say you are in your sports club. Someone in the restroom says : "The display of my cell phone is not working well".

And you were just in the middle of your exercise deconstructing the previous speculation performed by other persons. If you feel your mentalization was hit by this alleged connection ("display of my cell phone"), then you must visualize immediately "DISPERSAL TECHNIQUE". You may add to reinforce : "EXERCISE CLONING".

Sometimes you or your brain may become tired because of THEIR manipulation. I recommend you go on anyway with your archetypes, in spite of all the speculation. You have to concentrate, you have to focus. Focus on your beloved one. Mentalize the archetype : "FOCUS ON ME" (he/she saying to you in your mind).

THE REDUCTIONIST "CORRAL" TECHNIQUE - LIMITING YOUR REALITY IN SPACE AND TIME

It's used every time THEY want to inculcate the idea of limit in your brain. THEY want you to feel imprisoned by the limits THEY artificially create for your brain so that you can lose energy.

You may consider that in most cases THEY use a number of keywords that you may want to list. Here are some of them :

line (waiting line) - queue - traffic jam - sold out (place) - reservation (restaurant, train, theater) - vacancy (hotel, job) - space (parking lot) - full - deadline - waiting room - delayed - latecomer - term - school year - competition for a limited number of elements (election, contest, etc.) - and so on.

Example #1 :

Let's say you live in Paris, France. You're in the subway train. Two people around you start talking :

"I went to the movie theater yesterday night with my boyfriend, but when we got there, there were only a few dispersed seats. So either we chose to stay separate from each other, or we waited for the next session."
"So what did you do ?"
"We watched another movie, but we didn't like it".

And then they leave the train in a station and you don't hear anything else.

THEY want you to identify yourself with this situation. THEY want to limit your LOVE. LOVE HAS NO LIMITS.

THEY want you to think that you and your beloved one will stay separate because 'there are no more seats available in the BACKSTAGE'. That's what THEY are saying subliminally to your brain.

THE BACKSTAGE IS BASED ON LOVE AND HAS NO LIMITS OF ANY KIND WHATSOEVER, EITHER IN SPACE OR TIME.

THE BACKSTAGE HAS NO 'VACANCIES', NO 'SEAT RESERVATION', NO 'SOLD OUT', NO 'WAITING ROOM' OR 'WAITING LINE', NO DEADLINE.

Although these affirmations may sound obvious to you right now, it's not the way your brain interprets their sentences during their delirious and hypnotizing brainwashing, when you're hit by similarities and second-meanings.

So to deconstruct this category of the brainwashing, you may mentalize : "CORRAL TECHNIQUE" or "INVENTED LIMIT" or yet "LOVE HAS NO LIMITS", or all of them. And because THEY have talked about two situations (stay separate or wait for the next session), you must add : "FALSE DICHOTOMY".

Finally, THEY have mentioned not to have liked the other movie. So you visualize : "DESCRIPTION OF REALITY" (see more info on this archetype in the section 'Suggested Archetypes for Generic Uses'). To reinforce, you may add : "THEIR PROBLEM, THEIR LIFE, THEIR MOVIE". You may still add : "THERE ARE MOVIES ONLY IN THE STAGE WORLD", and "THEY DON'T TALK ABOUT YOU", for instance.

Example #2 :

Let's say you live in the States, more specifically in Des Moines, Iowa. You work in an office building. Your workmate says :

"I was taking my daughter to her swimming lessons, but I was caught by a giant traffic jam".

So ? He/She first try to sell you a second-meaning behavior : swimming. THIS IS BEHAVIOR INDUCEMENT ( see a previous section).

Then he/she associates this BEHAVIOR-TO-SELL with the ideas of LIMIT, IMPOTENCE, EXTERNAL CONTROL and UNPREDICTABILITY, all present in a physical traffic jam in the STAGE WORLD.

All these ideas penetrate your brain and if you don't mentalize your archetype, you may well lose energy, even if you have not the intention of having sex with your so-called 'sisters' or 'brothers', by 'diving' in their so-called 'pool'.