by
Mateo Sol
May 15, 2017
from
LonerWolf Website
Spanish version
Instincts, gut feelings, hunches, premonitions... all of these words
point to a deep capacity that we all carry inside known as
intuition.
The word intuition originally came from the Latin word intueri,
which meant "to contemplate" or "to look within."
Without learning how to
look and listen to our intuition, we tend to rely solely on the
limited rational mind or external input from others, which can
quickly lead us astray.
Many scientists and researchers are now referring to intuition as
the highest form of intelligence we possess. In other words,
intuition is no longer limited to the new age world of magical
thought; it is increasingly being seen as a legitimate way to make
judgments and decisions.
Unsurprisingly, spiritual traditions for thousands of years have all
known and revered the powers of intuition.
Buddhist, Islamic,
Hindu, and Western philosophy have all connected intuition with
planes of higher consciousness or
the Soul.
The
Advaita Vedānta for example (a
school of Hindu thought) values intuition as an experience through
which a person can contact and experience Brahman (Spirit/God).
Swiss psychiatrist Carl Jung also believed that intuition is
a powerful force, once writing:
Intuition gives outlook and
insight; it revels in the garden of magical possibilities.
Personally, I see
intuition as the "Soul's GPS" which can help us,
In this article, I'll
show you how to trust your intuition and break through the fearful
voice of the mind.
What is
Intuition?
Intuition is a sudden and inexplicable feeling that arises within
us.
Also referred to as,
the instinct, sixth
sense, inkling, hunch, and gut feeling,
...intuition is the
mysterious force that guides, protects, and informs us.
The information we
receive from our intuition is not usually available from our
conscious mind and thus stems from the unconscious.
What common ways do we experience intuition?
Usually, intuition
emerges as a quiet inner voice or feeling that tells us to take
this chance, go down that path, accept that opportunity, open
that door, and so on.
Intuition also tells
us what not to do, what to be careful of, when to
be vigilant, and when to stop.
How Does
Intuition Arise?
Intuition is associated with the right side of the brain which is
responsible for,
creativity,
imagination, musical and artistic aptitude, and emotions...
The left side of the
brain, on the other hand, is connected to,
logic, reasoning, and
critical thinking (we tend to favor the left brain over the
right brain in the West...)
Intuition stems from that
nonlinear dimension of our minds, that part where unconscious
connections and associations are made and arise within our conscious
minds seemingly out of nowhere.
As Joseph Murphy, author of
The Power of Your Unconscious Mind
notes:
Within your
subconscious depths lie infinite wisdom, infinite power, and
infinite supply of all that is necessary, which is waiting for
development and expression.
Intuition is an amazingly
powerful tool - a natural gift of our biology that is ready and
available to us.
However, it's often
ignored or forgotten by us humans. Yet there are so many
exhilarating benefits from learning how to tap into it.
We'll explore some
benefits next.
Why Intuition
is Powerful - And a Little Intimidating...!
Don't try
to comprehend with your mind.
Your minds are
very limited.
Use your
intuition.
M.
L'Engle
All throughout history people have listened closely to the whispers
of their intuition.
From Dr. Loewi's intuitive discovery of the chemical transmission of
nerve impulses, and Elias Howe's invention of the sewing machine, to
Isaac Newton's theory of gravity, many great strides in existence
have been attributed to spontaneous sparks of intuition.
But why should we pay
attention to our intuition?
I mean... it's not
like we're planning on becoming world-famous physicists or
inventors, right?
Wrong...
You don't need to strive
for either. Intuition is very down-to-earth and can help us in any
area of life.
Here's why it's so
powerful:
1. Intuition
reveals deep truths in our lives
Either about ourselves, other people, or life at large,
intuition helps us to develop a deeper understanding and
insight. The result is that we feel more intelligently guided in
our thoughts, feelings, and decisions.
2. Intuition helps
us identify negative omens in our lives
Failure, financial collapse, death, emotional threat - intuition
puts us in touch with our instinctive defense systems, helping
us to avoid harm. (How eerie but cool is that!)
3. Intuition opens
new paths to us
By helping us to identify positive signs in our lives, intuition
opens new doors to us when we least expect it.
4. Intuition
guides us and helps us to make wise decisions
By allowing us to know what decisions to make and when,
intuition helps us to achieve a measure of confidence and peace
of mind, assisting us in following paths that are true to
ourselves: paths with heart.
5.
Intuition helps us to live fulfilling lives
Truth hurts, but truth also helps us to wake up to the false,
corrupted, and delusional lives that we sometimes lead and
choices we occasionally make.
Intuition is a
bringer of truth, and thus a bringer of change and
transformation. When we listen to it, we make decisions that
ultimately help our lives to be genuine and fulfilling.
How to
Distinguish Fearful Thoughts from Intuition
I
sometimes FEEL that I am right.
I do not KNOW
that I am.
Albert
Einstein
Unfortunately, it's very common for us to confuse the voice of
intuition with the voice of fear.
In order for us to make
the most intelligent, successful, wise, loving, and meaningful
decisions in our lives, we need to learn how to make a clear
distinction between the two.
As a person who has a
very strong "inner skeptic," it has been difficult for me to
loosen my rational brain in favor of my intuition.
As a thinker, my
mental voice has always been quite strong and persistent.
I'm sure you have
struggled with this to some extent too.
What helped me to distinguish fearful thoughts from
intuitive guidance was to pay attention to how each inner
voice felt in my body.
Here are some main
differences between fear and intuition.
Fear:
-
Feels heavy and
dark
-
Emotionally-charged (e.g., "I need to do this or else ____
will happen!!")
-
Vague
-
Makes you feel
frustrated, overwhelmed, confused or anxious
-
Causes you to
ruminate and get lost in cycles of thought
Intuition:
-
Feels light
-
Unemotional
-
Crystal clear
-
Makes you feel
calm, inspired, and a sense of resolution
-
Spontaneously
arises and immediately feels "right" without further
rational thought
By paying attention to these signs, you will slowly be able to
distinguish paranoid thinking from neutral and intuitive knowing.
How to Trust Your Intuition to Make Big Life Decisions
Intuition means exactly
what it sounds like,
in-tuition!
An inner tutor or teaching
and learning mechanism
that takes us forward daily.
It is a resource that, where
recognized,
has infinite potential.
Sylvia
Clare
Intuition is an essential life skill that we must all learn to
refine and develop, preferably sooner rather than later.
Without intuition, we get
stranded in labyrinths of rigid, agitated or obsessive thoughts that
limit our capacity to see clearly.
The less clear we can see, the
more likely we will make bad decisions.
When we listen to our intuition, we experience clarity that helps us
to make the most beneficial choices for our lives.
We can learn how to trust our intuition in nine main ways:
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Silence your mind
-
Ask yourself,
"How do I feel about this decision?"
-
Focus on the
sensations in your body
-
Explore whether
fear is fuelling you
-
Formulate your
conclusion, and live both scenarios
-
Don't allow
pressure to bias you
-
Ask for guidance
-
Develop more
self-awareness
-
Clear your third
eye chakra
Below I will explore each
of these points more in-depth and help you learn how to trust your
intuition to make big life decisions:
1. Silence your
mind
Often the mind tends to hijack our decision making processes.
While it is important
that you use rational thought, your usual thinking is often
subject to prejudice, past beliefs, external influences ("peer
pressure"), and fear.
To access your intuition, you need to clear your mind of
thought. In order to clear your mind, I recommend that you
meditate, listen to some relaxing music, or focus on mindful
breathing.
It is very difficult
to listen to your intuition when you're in a stressed-out state
of mind.
For example,
you might like to
try breathing deeply for a few minutes. Breathe in through
your nose and allow your belly to gently expand.
You may like to
slow your breath to the count of four and breathe in slowly
for four seconds, hold for four seconds, and breathe out for
four seconds.
Try doing any
practice that relaxes and stills your mind.
Only once you are
calm and centered can you accurately access your
intuitive power.
2. Ask yourself,
"How do I feel about this decision?"
Once you have relaxed your mind and body, inwardly ask yourself,
"How do I feel
about this decision?"
Notice the first
feeling, sensation, word or image that arises within you.
You might like to
write down whatever appears and reflect on it some more.
3. Focus on the
sensations in your body
We can never be deceived by our bodies because our bodies can
never lie.
No matter what
elaborate stories or theories we concoct, our body will always
reveal the truth of the matter.
In order to connect with your intuition, try listening to your
body.
Think about the decision you have to make, and focus on
your body's response.
For example, if
you want to quit your job, you might notice a sensation of
relief flood your entire body (which is a sign that you
should quit your job!).
Alternatively, if
you are thinking of moving to a certain town, you might feel
your shoulders and neck tense up (which is most likely a
sign that you shouldn't move there).
By using mindful body
awareness, you will be able to connect more freely with your
intuition.
4. Explore whether
fear is fuelling you
Fear has a sneaky way of disguising itself as intuition.
When we are
fearful, we tend to make rash decisions or believe that we
are "following our intuition" because of how strong the
mental voice can become.
When you are
faced with an important decision, try writing down all of
your fears surrounding the situation on a piece of paper.
Making your fears
visible will help you to determine whether the voice within you
is driven by fear or clear knowing.
5. Formulate your
conclusion, and live both scenarios
Come up with a range of solutions and mentally live out each
scenario.
Visualize each choice
as vividly as you can, then pay attention to how each option
feels. Whichever option feels the most "right" is the choice you
need to go for.
6. Don't allow
pressure to bias you
Are you putting a lot of pressure on yourself?
The pressure to make
a "quick decision" tends to inhibit the flow of intuition. While
intuition can work under strenuous circumstances, if you have
the option to slow down, please do.
Just because you
aren't obsessing over something doesn't mean the thought isn't
bubbling in your subconscious mind.
Sometimes putting
decision making on the "back burner" helps you to relax, adopt
new perspectives, and open more easily to the presence of your
intuitive knowing.
7. Ask for
guidance
Intuition
is seeing
with the soul.
Dean
Koontz
When I struggle to access my intuition, I say a prayer of
guidance asking my Soul for support.
If you are struggling
with accessing your intuition, say a small prayer to whomever or
whatever you believe in (e.g., your Higher Self, Soul, Spirit,
God, Allah).
You don't need to be
religious to pray. Prayer is condensed energy and
intention which will help you to focus your willpower.
Saying a prayer is a
powerful way to enhance your intuitive prowess.
8. Develop more
self-awareness
Self-awareness is the ability to,
be aware of your
feelings, thoughts, and behaviors and the way in which they
impact you and the people around you.
The more aware we are
of what goes on inside of ourselves, the easier it will be to
identify the quiet voice of our intuition in the first place.
Mindfulness,
meditation, and introspection all assist in developing
self-awareness.
9. Clear your
third eye chakra
If you believe in chakra healing, focus on balancing your
third eye chakra, which is the center of your intuitive
abilities.
If you struggle with
problems such as negative thinking patterns, over-thinking,
paranoia or anxiety, you most likely have a third eye chakra
problem.
There are many ways
to unblock this chakra, and we explore them in our article on
how to open your third eye.
Intuition FAQ
There are so many facets involved in learning how to trust your
intuition.
If you're still in need
of guidance, the following Q&A's might help:
Can your intuition
be wrong?
This is a tricky question to answer, but in short, pure
intuition is never wrong. But intuition that is tainted by
thoughts can be wrong.
As intuition stems
from the unconscious and universal mind (also known as the 'Collective
Unconscious') that has access to a tremendous amount
of information, the insights it relays are far more accurate
than pure rational thinking.
When intuition is
unclear and foggy, it's more likely for it to be wrong or
misguided.
This is why learning
how to distinguish the voice of fear from the voice of
intuition is crucial.
What does
intuition feel like?
The feeling of intuition varies for everyone.
For some people, it
will be very physical. It's common, for example, to experience
tingles down the spine, a rush of energy, goosebumps, a pit in
the stomach, and so on.
Others experience
intuition as something more mental.
For instance, some
people get visual flashes (such as premonitions or visions) and
others get a quiet (and in some instances loud!) inner voice
arising.
What is an
example of intuition?
There are endless examples of intuition out there.
Intuition, for
example, can arise in moments before a crisis directing a person
to do or not do something that can have dire life/death
consequences.
Many individuals have
intuitive feelings of dread or joy before making conscious life
decisions.
Intuition can also
emerge in everyday situations, such as what present to buy
someone, what's really wrong with your partner or best friend
("something doesn't feel right"), and what route to take to
work.
Is everyone
intuitive?
Yes, everyone has the capacity to be intuitive.
It's just a matter of
learning how to tap into your unconscious mind. While intuition
might come more easily to some, it's ultimately a skill that
needs to be honed and developed.
Intuition is a small glimpse into the enormous magnitude of
wisdom and intelligence possessed by your largely secret and
untapped unconscious mind...
By learning how to silence your mind, connect with your body,
identify fear, and clear energy blockages, you will find it easier
to access your intuition in any life circumstance.
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